(continued from part 1)
I've tried peacocking myself. I did this maybe a couple times when I heard that other guys were doing it, just to see if it worked.
When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally incongruent with my personality.
But we all know that women pay attention to fashion, and like a well-dressed man.
When I was in my workout clothes, or was wearing something basic - like jeans and a tanktop, I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred in there.
I'd see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.
It got me thinking... that maybe it's not how flashy or costly are the cloths should be.
I guess there is something else going on.
There are two things going on. This two things must be manage or balance.
The first thing is, never seek approval from women. You are totally toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying to impress her or make her like you.
So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You DON'T have to look like a pick up artist.
It's better to dress modestly, and not put too much thought into it.
However, you need to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.
This comes back to self-expression.
You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool.
Never change that.
Instead, develop it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color. This isn't rocket science. Go to an upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.
Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free, and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure that your garments are well-fitted, in other words, they EMPHASIZE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Square your shoulders and wear shirts that narrow your waist.
Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.
One other thing...
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."
I don't want to talk too much because that's a whole other topic because that's a whole other topic. Just use your intuition with this one.
I've tried peacocking myself. I did this maybe a couple times when I heard that other guys were doing it, just to see if it worked.
When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally incongruent with my personality.
But we all know that women pay attention to fashion, and like a well-dressed man.
When I was in my workout clothes, or was wearing something basic - like jeans and a tanktop, I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred in there.
I'd see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.
It got me thinking... that maybe it's not how flashy or costly are the cloths should be.
I guess there is something else going on.
There are two things going on. This two things must be manage or balance.
The first thing is, never seek approval from women. You are totally toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying to impress her or make her like you.
So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You DON'T have to look like a pick up artist.
It's better to dress modestly, and not put too much thought into it.
However, you need to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.
This comes back to self-expression.
You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool.
Never change that.
Instead, develop it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color. This isn't rocket science. Go to an upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.
Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free, and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure that your garments are well-fitted, in other words, they EMPHASIZE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Square your shoulders and wear shirts that narrow your waist.
Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.
One other thing...
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."
I don't want to talk too much because that's a whole other topic because that's a whole other topic. Just use your intuition with this one.
