Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?
And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you're not even closer to your goal?
If you agreed to those questions, then you may continue reading.
I'm not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.
You see a girl you like, but she has a boyfriend.
Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your calls.
Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.
You must have the courage in the way you approach.
First off, you need to keep you conversation moving, then you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number or much better you have to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.
You know what, the standards for men's behavior are much higher than women.
(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")
It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you're not "extroverted" by nature.
... I have often heard a complain about "extroversion fatigue" from a client of mine.
I used to struggle with that too that's why I knew exactly what he meant.
Before I started to teach myself about pick-up, and then found myself being mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.
I would have to sit down and rest!
Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.
I would go home and be absolutely DEAD
... from having a CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN!
Does it make sense to you???
And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.
I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!
I really had force myself, the first time I got in this game, to go out and pickup ALL Day for days on end. (I admit that I was a nerd and pushed it to the extreme.)
All I can say is that I have this passion in learning those stuff (very eager for the outcome after years of sensual frustration)
It's like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself.
I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.
If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.
About the Author:
Vin DiCarlo is a professional pick up artist guru, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has to say about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.
